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		<title>By: finance guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>finance guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 02:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i dont know much about investing yet, good info</description>
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		<title>By: Bruce Baker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce Baker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 04:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is no question that Eph 4 show God&#039;s normal plan for the church as a body. The gifted men are to prepare God&#039;s people for works of service. But as I understood the question, it wasn&#039;t about the church as a body but about the individual.

You might respond by saying that the church is made up of individuals. Therefore, what is true of the church is also true of the individual. But that is a leap in logic. Individuals can (and do) grow when the church around them is stagnant. Likewise, the church can (and does) grow spiritual even when some of the body chooses to remain carnal (fleshy).

It should also be noted that whatever it is that causes Christian growth must be true of all believers at all times. If this weren&#039;t true, we would be saying that God placed some into the body but didn&#039;t give them what they needed to grow spiritually. By this standard, must of what we think is necessary really isn&#039;t. 

For example, I believe that God uses his Word to help the individual believer to grow. But what of the believer in the middle ages who was illiterate and didn&#039;t have a copy of the Scriptures. Was he condemned to immaturity?

Or what of of the slave on a sugar plantation in the Virgin Islands? There was no opportunity for solitude or &quot;quite time.&quot; Every aspect of his life was ordered and controlled. Only as he lay on his bed exhausted and sick at night could he come close to solitude.

The only avenue of growth that has been available to all believers at all times is the indwelling Holy Spirit and communion with the Godhead through prayer. This is very individual. While I praise God for the church, the visible bride of Christ gets blamed for much that isn&#039;t her fault. 

God will judge each of us individually. I doubt he will accept as an excuse that &quot;your visible body made me do it.&quot; Growth is aided by the church in the best of circumstances, but growth remains an individual responsibility.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is no question that Eph 4 show God&#8217;s normal plan for the church as a body. The gifted men are to prepare God&#8217;s people for works of service. But as I understood the question, it wasn&#8217;t about the church as a body but about the individual.</p>
<p>You might respond by saying that the church is made up of individuals. Therefore, what is true of the church is also true of the individual. But that is a leap in logic. Individuals can (and do) grow when the church around them is stagnant. Likewise, the church can (and does) grow spiritual even when some of the body chooses to remain carnal (fleshy).</p>
<p>It should also be noted that whatever it is that causes Christian growth must be true of all believers at all times. If this weren&#8217;t true, we would be saying that God placed some into the body but didn&#8217;t give them what they needed to grow spiritually. By this standard, must of what we think is necessary really isn&#8217;t. </p>
<p>For example, I believe that God uses his Word to help the individual believer to grow. But what of the believer in the middle ages who was illiterate and didn&#8217;t have a copy of the Scriptures. Was he condemned to immaturity?</p>
<p>Or what of of the slave on a sugar plantation in the Virgin Islands? There was no opportunity for solitude or &#8220;quite time.&#8221; Every aspect of his life was ordered and controlled. Only as he lay on his bed exhausted and sick at night could he come close to solitude.</p>
<p>The only avenue of growth that has been available to all believers at all times is the indwelling Holy Spirit and communion with the Godhead through prayer. This is very individual. While I praise God for the church, the visible bride of Christ gets blamed for much that isn&#8217;t her fault. </p>
<p>God will judge each of us individually. I doubt he will accept as an excuse that &#8220;your visible body made me do it.&#8221; Growth is aided by the church in the best of circumstances, but growth remains an individual responsibility.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 18:34:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great post and discussion.  Thanks for your additional comments, too.  I felt my heart kind of leap reading the comments as we have had the same questions asked of us.  Part of our struggle as a church is that we emerged from a demographic, not a neighborhood, and so there is an inherent inorganic quality to what we are trying to do.  Discipleship has been a tough go for us, in part because we have not done an adequate enough job of explaining clearly just this vision, and so the things we have done have been threatening I think,  to a number of people for whom it is difficult to imagine a non-ceo run church.   I remain forever indebted to The Great Giveaway (and Hauerwas :) ) so, thanks on a Monday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great post and discussion.  Thanks for your additional comments, too.  I felt my heart kind of leap reading the comments as we have had the same questions asked of us.  Part of our struggle as a church is that we emerged from a demographic, not a neighborhood, and so there is an inherent inorganic quality to what we are trying to do.  Discipleship has been a tough go for us, in part because we have not done an adequate enough job of explaining clearly just this vision, and so the things we have done have been threatening I think,  to a number of people for whom it is difficult to imagine a non-ceo run church.   I remain forever indebted to The Great Giveaway (and Hauerwas <img src='http://www.reclaimingthemission.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) so, thanks on a Monday.</p>
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		<title>By: David Fitch</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Fitch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 19:08:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bruce, 
Come on ...
You&#039;re mighty sure that growth is an individual process? Yet the Pauline epistles are clear that growth is a communal process equally dependent upon the work of the Holy Spirit as He manifests His work through one another in the gifts. I am sure the Spirit works in individuals, yet it is mediated through the Body. The Eph 4 chapter you cited is evidence no. 1. But then this flows tnroughout the entire NT corpus, see that even Peter when they discern the course of the church among the Gentiles seek the Spirit together in applying Scriptyure. Look at 1 Cor 12, etc. In fact every letter of the epistles is addressed to the corporate body as a whole. 
So I find your indightment &quot;What is lacking in both of these models is a commitment to the clarity of the Scriptures&quot; to be something applicable to your self as wel eh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bruce,<br />
Come on &#8230;<br />
You&#8217;re mighty sure that growth is an individual process? Yet the Pauline epistles are clear that growth is a communal process equally dependent upon the work of the Holy Spirit as He manifests His work through one another in the gifts. I am sure the Spirit works in individuals, yet it is mediated through the Body. The Eph 4 chapter you cited is evidence no. 1. But then this flows tnroughout the entire NT corpus, see that even Peter when they discern the course of the church among the Gentiles seek the Spirit together in applying Scriptyure. Look at 1 Cor 12, etc. In fact every letter of the epistles is addressed to the corporate body as a whole.<br />
So I find your indightment &#8220;What is lacking in both of these models is a commitment to the clarity of the Scriptures&#8221; to be something applicable to your self as wel eh?</p>
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		<title>By: Bruce Baker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce Baker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 18:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I understand how such a comparison might spring to mind, I find both models lacking. In reality, I feel that this is a false choice. Notice that both lists start with some kind of leader. It is true that God has ordained leadership in the church for the building up of the body. (Eph 4:11-16) Nevertheless, the Bible is equally clear that spiritual maturity comes from the indwelling work of God the Holy Spirit, not the sole efforts of a &quot;spiritual director&quot; if I may borrow the words of the &quot;spiritual formation&quot; movement. 

The first model, in particular, is a straw man. It is not a given that people will be &quot;in your face&quot; unless perhaps you are in open sin, which should be confronted. Neither is it a given that all things are black and white (read Romans 14) or that  sinful behavior is the result of &quot;insufficient information.&quot; Most of the time we sin simply because we are sinful. 

What is lacking in both of these models is a commitment to the clarity of the Scriptures. This doesn&#039;t mean that all passages are equally clear, nor that there cannot be disagreements between fellow believers of good faith. What it does mean is that the main idea that a passage is presenting is clear enough for everyone to understand. I might not know who the Sons of God are in Gen 6 or what the Nephilim were, but I do know that the world was filled with violence and God&#039;s heart was filled with pain. That&#039;s why he decided to destroy the world.

Ultimately, the two choices above shift the responsibility of individual growth from the individual to the &quot;leader&quot; and neither takes into account the work of God the Holy Spirit through his (clear) Word.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I understand how such a comparison might spring to mind, I find both models lacking. In reality, I feel that this is a false choice. Notice that both lists start with some kind of leader. It is true that God has ordained leadership in the church for the building up of the body. (Eph 4:11-16) Nevertheless, the Bible is equally clear that spiritual maturity comes from the indwelling work of God the Holy Spirit, not the sole efforts of a &#8220;spiritual director&#8221; if I may borrow the words of the &#8220;spiritual formation&#8221; movement. </p>
<p>The first model, in particular, is a straw man. It is not a given that people will be &#8220;in your face&#8221; unless perhaps you are in open sin, which should be confronted. Neither is it a given that all things are black and white (read Romans 14) or that  sinful behavior is the result of &#8220;insufficient information.&#8221; Most of the time we sin simply because we are sinful. </p>
<p>What is lacking in both of these models is a commitment to the clarity of the Scriptures. This doesn&#8217;t mean that all passages are equally clear, nor that there cannot be disagreements between fellow believers of good faith. What it does mean is that the main idea that a passage is presenting is clear enough for everyone to understand. I might not know who the Sons of God are in Gen 6 or what the Nephilim were, but I do know that the world was filled with violence and God&#8217;s heart was filled with pain. That&#8217;s why he decided to destroy the world.</p>
<p>Ultimately, the two choices above shift the responsibility of individual growth from the individual to the &#8220;leader&#8221; and neither takes into account the work of God the Holy Spirit through his (clear) Word.</p>
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		<title>By: Len Hjalmarson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Len Hjalmarson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh.. one more.. I&#039;ve been pestering everyone with this one  ;)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I wonder whether our renewed discovery of the little shorthand.. Christology -&gt; mission -&gt; ecclesiology is actually hindering us. I suspect that when we drop this piece into our western context we read it through a Cartesian lens. So.. Christ is one, formation is into Christ, therefore formation is an individual enterprise and an individual outcome. I&#039;m convinced we need to begin with a explicit Trinitarian foundation, as Newbigin above (which was page 70 &quot;The Open Secret.&quot;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh.. one more.. I&#39;ve been pestering everyone with this one  <img src='http://www.reclaimingthemission.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I wonder whether our renewed discovery of the little shorthand.. Christology -&gt; mission -&gt; ecclesiology is actually hindering us. I suspect that when we drop this piece into our western context we read it through a Cartesian lens. So.. Christ is one, formation is into Christ, therefore formation is an individual enterprise and an individual outcome. I&#39;m convinced we need to begin with a explicit Trinitarian foundation, as Newbigin above (which was page 70 &quot;The Open Secret.&quot;)</p>
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		<title>By: Len Hjalmarson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Len Hjalmarson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 17:46:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No comment per se, just to agree that the alternative (2) track is rare. Part of the reason for this is that we aren&#039;t going to argue people into this insight.. we are going to have to show them the way. And that means finding a few who are willing to try it so that we can become it together. btw, reading in Newbigin lately and he writes, (paragraph edited)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;“Interpersonal relatedness belongs to the very being of God. Therefore there can be no salvation for human beings except in relatedness...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;“The biblical insistence that God’s universal purpose of salvation is accomplished through the choosing of particular people arises from this fundamental insight concerning human nature. If each human being is to be ultimately understood as an independent spiritual monad, then salvation could only be through an action directed impartially to each and all. But if the truly human is the shared reality of mutual and collective responsibility that the Bible envisages, then salvation must be an action that binds us together and restores for us the true mutual relation to each other and to the world of nature. This means that the gift of salvation would be bound up with our openness to each other… ”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No comment per se, just to agree that the alternative (2) track is rare. Part of the reason for this is that we aren&#8217;t going to argue people into this insight.. we are going to have to show them the way. And that means finding a few who are willing to try it so that we can become it together. btw, reading in Newbigin lately and he writes, (paragraph edited)</p>
<p>“Interpersonal relatedness belongs to the very being of God. Therefore there can be no salvation for human beings except in relatedness&#8230;</p>
<p>“The biblical insistence that God’s universal purpose of salvation is accomplished through the choosing of particular people arises from this fundamental insight concerning human nature. If each human being is to be ultimately understood as an independent spiritual monad, then salvation could only be through an action directed impartially to each and all. But if the truly human is the shared reality of mutual and collective responsibility that the Bible envisages, then salvation must be an action that binds us together and restores for us the true mutual relation to each other and to the world of nature. This means that the gift of salvation would be bound up with our openness to each other… ”</p>
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		<title>By: hurdler</title>
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		<dc:creator>hurdler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 20:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Even though the title of the post is &quot;how to Christians grow...&quot;, there should have been a subtitle to the affect &quot;what do you do if they don&#039;t get it?&quot;  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It seems as if the leaders all come to the table seeing that path &#039;A&#039; is not the way to go.  Therefore path &#039;B&#039; is a good alternative to try.  But when folks come along without already being at that same place there is a disconnect because they are asking questions that the leaders didn&#039;t because they started further down the road.  What do you do?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Have you tried as you described in &quot;Another Way&quot; to 1) mutually discern the spirit without any predetermined outcome, 2) preach the Word of God on the theme of discipleship/(leadership too), and 3) engage in dialogue to see where each other is coming from.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Either that or draw a dividing line saying we are taking path B at some level and then directing that this is the way it is, get on board... vision, right belief, in your face, and all that stuff.  &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Ecclesiology is messy... good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Even though the title of the post is &#8220;how to Christians grow&#8230;&#8221;, there should have been a subtitle to the affect &#8220;what do you do if they don&#8217;t get it?&#8221;  </p>
<p>It seems as if the leaders all come to the table seeing that path &#8216;A&#8217; is not the way to go.  Therefore path &#8216;B&#8217; is a good alternative to try.  But when folks come along without already being at that same place there is a disconnect because they are asking questions that the leaders didn&#8217;t because they started further down the road.  What do you do?</p>
<p>Have you tried as you described in &#8220;Another Way&#8221; to 1) mutually discern the spirit without any predetermined outcome, 2) preach the Word of God on the theme of discipleship/(leadership too), and 3) engage in dialogue to see where each other is coming from.  </p>
<p>Either that or draw a dividing line saying we are taking path B at some level and then directing that this is the way it is, get on board&#8230; vision, right belief, in your face, and all that stuff.  </p>
<p>Ecclesiology is messy&#8230; good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 18:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We do need to do better &quot;visioneering&quot; - but what we&#039;re finding is that those who say they want #1 out of leaders, preaching, and community do NOT hear what we&#039;re saying. They filter what we&#039;re doing and and what they hear us saying through their own expectations and assumptions about how Christians grow and mature, and that leads to MAJOR DISCONNECT almost to the point of scratching one&#039;s head and thinking, &quot;how could you have heard THAT?&quot;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;This exercise, before it was posted on Fitch&#039;s blog, grew out of a concern for us to articulate who we are, how we see maturity and growth happen, and how we do so together in a way that the people we want to reach could actually hear it! And not hear what we weren&#039;t saying. So at its heart, what started as a 10 minute &quot;jot down some things to help us communicate who we are better&quot; and matriculated to a blog post...at its heart, this document is meant to increase our missional faithfulness - not to be 100% accurate or fair or even non-biased.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The issue that served as catalyst for this was talking past one another...and, as i track this post as it makes its way around the internet, that is STILL the issue...&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;thanks for all your feedback and comments -&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Matt Tebbe</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We do need to do better &#8220;visioneering&#8221; &#8211; but what we&#8217;re finding is that those who say they want #1 out of leaders, preaching, and community do NOT hear what we&#8217;re saying. They filter what we&#8217;re doing and and what they hear us saying through their own expectations and assumptions about how Christians grow and mature, and that leads to MAJOR DISCONNECT almost to the point of scratching one&#8217;s head and thinking, &#8220;how could you have heard THAT?&#8221;</p>
<p>This exercise, before it was posted on Fitch&#8217;s blog, grew out of a concern for us to articulate who we are, how we see maturity and growth happen, and how we do so together in a way that the people we want to reach could actually hear it! And not hear what we weren&#8217;t saying. So at its heart, what started as a 10 minute &#8220;jot down some things to help us communicate who we are better&#8221; and matriculated to a blog post&#8230;at its heart, this document is meant to increase our missional faithfulness &#8211; not to be 100% accurate or fair or even non-biased.</p>
<p>The issue that served as catalyst for this was talking past one another&#8230;and, as i track this post as it makes its way around the internet, that is STILL the issue&#8230;</p>
<p>thanks for all your feedback and comments -</p>
<p>Matt Tebbe</p>
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		<title>By: Jeremy Pryor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeremy Pryor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 13:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve found Jesus really helpful in forming the best method for discipleship.  In the Great Commission (Mt. 28:18-20) he writes - &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Make disciples = clear repeatable systematic process&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Baptizing them = initiation into a new trinitarian community&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Teaching them to obey = training (not just knowledge teaching!)&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Everything I have commanded you = comprehensive&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;So what if we tried this - creating a clear, systematic, repeatable, comprehensive discipleship training process that happens in the context of authentic community?&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I&#039;ve served in 7 churches and have NEVER seen this tried or even heard about a group doing this.  They always seem to leave large essential elements out.  We&#039;ve been applying this for 2 years now and its consistently changing lives like nothing I&#039;ve ever been apart of.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Maybe the answer was sitting there in front of us all along.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve found Jesus really helpful in forming the best method for discipleship.  In the Great Commission (Mt. 28:18-20) he writes &#8211; </p>
<p>Make disciples = clear repeatable systematic process</p>
<p>Baptizing them = initiation into a new trinitarian community</p>
<p>Teaching them to obey = training (not just knowledge teaching!)</p>
<p>Everything I have commanded you = comprehensive</p>
<p>So what if we tried this &#8211; creating a clear, systematic, repeatable, comprehensive discipleship training process that happens in the context of authentic community?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve served in 7 churches and have NEVER seen this tried or even heard about a group doing this.  They always seem to leave large essential elements out.  We&#8217;ve been applying this for 2 years now and its consistently changing lives like nothing I&#8217;ve ever been apart of.</p>
<p>Maybe the answer was sitting there in front of us all along.</p>
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