“Being Missional” and the GLBTQ #2: Mission and the Nature of Desire

Way back when, I started a series of posts aimed at unraveling the two issues of  “women in ministry” and GLBTQ relations in terms of the three post evangelical theological streams – Neo Reformed/the post Emergent Coalescence(pEC) and the Neo-Anabaptist Missional. I said that key to understanding how they each came down on these issues was understanding how sanctification, community and Scripture worked in each one.

Sanctification deals with the question of how salvation changes us, grows us, transforms us into Christ – personally and socially. I find the Neo-Reformed and pEC understandings on this inadeqaute. To over stereotype each one -the traditional evangelicals say that the Bible says A, you’re doing and desiring B, So Stop Doing B and go do A! Go and rely on the Holy Spirit to help you tell your body “no!” In relation to GLBT relations, this is the welcoming but not affirming position. Meanwhile, the pEC’s generally look more generously on desire (and science) and encourage its flourishing towards a concept of love and flourishing as modeled by Christ. In relation to GLBT relations, this is the welcoming and affirming position. In both cases, they ignore, even bypass, the body and the issue of desire. One says just have your mind conceptually learn the Bible and then tell your body what to do. The way in which your body is formed into desire and how deep that runs within the body, is ignored. The pEC approach ignores the body as well by saying its alright, desire is inherently good, so again learn conceptually what it means to use this desire to love and flourish in the world by learning about Jesus and then all will be well. Both are intensely cognitive (heavily indebted to modernist Cartesian subject). Though spiritual disciplines are present in both emerging post evangelical traditions, there is a stark lack of appreciation for the mortification of sin and of desire that goes hand in hand with the historic Anabaptist understanding of the role of suffering and discipleship. Have I mischaracterized? If so how?

The incarnation demands that God’s salvific work in Christ is intended for real live bodies. God in Christ took our human flesh so seriously He entered into it and subordinated Himself to it in order to redeem it (Phil 2). Thd incarnation demands we acknowledge that our bodies are both good as created (as the pEC’s do) and disordered (as traditional Neo Reformed do). We acknowledge that we cannot save ourselves. We do not always know which parts of our desires are good and which have been corrupted. We are broken. We have to enter the process of the way of Jesus Himself, the way of death and resurrection, of baptism into the new order (2 Cor 17-21) in submission to God to even know what that might look like. This order of salvation is not aimed at any one desire, all are invited in for the renewal in the resurrected life. Yet it seems to me the basis for entering into this Kingdom transformation is the subordination of our entire selves into the cross and resurrection. Desire and the KIngdom cannot be separated (Gal 5:16-26). In other words, it requires the subordination of all desire together for the sake of the world. This is the welcoming and mutually transforming position. In this process, there will be desire that will have to be put to death, there will be desire that can be received as is and given to God for His flourishing, and there will be desire that inherently is good but needs reformation into the fuller purposes of God in life and mission.

I admit this way of sanctification is an affront to the GLBTQ populations. So my question is simply …

Can anyone enter the redemption of the new creation in Christ apart from submitting all desire to Christ for His purposes? On what basis might we withhold any desire in our entire beings from submission to Christ?

By “desire” of course, I am not talking only about sexual desire. (I admit I have been influenced by the analysis of desire so prevalent in postmodern critical theorists). I am talking about all levels of desire: greed, lust for power and ego, and of course sexual desire. When I say “ anyone” I include myself, and first and foremost any who are in positions of power. I admit that I cannot see how the Mission of God can be advanced apart from this kind of spiritual formation. For so many (not all!!) of our desires, formed and shaped within advanced capitalism, work against the Mission of God. I am of course talking about consumerist desires by which we desire many strange things (like a BMW) as identity markers. So powerful are the market shapers of desire, I am 100% convinced that the way money forms us, the way power in multiple settings forms us, and of course the way sexuality has been formed via the consumptive politics of the West, cannot be escaped apart from the subordination of all desire into the death and resurrection of Christ. Within these structures of formation are of course all the horrific ways we have been abused, victimized and shaped to believe this too is the way things are.  All of these resulting formations misshape us in ways we fundamentally are unaware of (the Freudian hypothesis).
FOR ALL THESE REASONS I DON’T BELIEVE THOSE OF US WHO ARE MISSIONALLY MINDED, I.E. SEEKING TO ENGAGE OUR EMBODIED CONTEXTS FOR THE TRANSFORMATION OF THE GOSPEL, CAN AVOID THE ISSUE OF DESIRE! At this point it simply is not about the specific cases of GLBT peoples among us. There are multitudes among us never mind so many more around us, who have been victims of multitudinous forms of sexual abuse and societal sexual malformation. Many of us have learned sexuality is the most perverse of ways. It seems that the alternative two post evangelical streams have little to offer those caught in the darkside of sexual desire – deep patterns of behavioral abuse, patterns of objectifying or being objectified, pedophilia, pornography. This is not heterosexual, G,L,B.T or Q. The reality is “THIS IS US.” If we would take on the redemption of the incarnate Christ, if we would minister incarnationally among the largest social psycho problems of our day, we must be able to invite those lost in these various ways into the process of death to life, dying and being resuurected to new life, as in Rom 6-8. For this is about more than personal sexual preference, this is the shaping of a way of being together, a politic of sexual redemption we bring to the world in Christ who came into the world in the flesh.

I see three objections to inviting our GLBTQ brothers and sisters into this kind of community of sexual redemption. They might say:

1.) This is a power play … I respond that Jesus and entire NT insists that those in power will be the first ones in line.

2.) This is a pre-judgement …I respond that there is no judgment, no discerning possible until we first love, trust and care so much for one another that we might be able to both know each other, speak truth and be humble to simply be used by the Spirit in each others’ lives.

3.) This denies who I am- created by God to be.  I respond that we join in the making of all things new. Some desires may be restored, some be put to death entirely others transformed … We cannot know who or what we will be in Christ, only that our identity be found more truthful in Him.

All this requires a community, a unique incredible community of incarnational redemption and missional disposition in the world. In the end, this is what I think is most important. All the talking, blogging will convince no one. We must embiody a new way of sexual redemption in the world that is as compelling as the gospel we proclaim. This will be the subject of my next post on this subject.

With that, I open it up these questions to your comments.For the Neo-Reformed and pEC, tell me where I have this wrong. How do you deal with desire in your understanding of salvation?

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Brad Sargent has done a marvelous job responding to my posts. See his work here.

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Church Turnover and the Work of Cultivating the Kingdom

I was sitting in our gathering this past Sunday noticing the numbers of people who weren’t there. This is a bad habit for pastors. Nonetheless I shamefully imbibed.

The spaceimages-1 was full yet several people were missing. We only seat about 200 and we sit in the round so it’s easy to notice missing people. We’ve gone through some strange turnover in the last couple years and I grieve when it happens. Sometimes I’ve grieved for months over someone who has left.

I think pastors should be careful about the nature of this grief. I don’t think we should be casual when people leave (“they didn’t agree with us – it was time they found another church”). On the other hand, there are other times when we should understand this is the way God shapes a community. People are going to move – sometimes for wrong reasons, sometimes for good ones. We should seek them out, discern the will of God with them and bless them in their sending.

The main issue here in church turnover is what God is doing to form His Kingdom. I once heard Darrell Guder say “stop looking at visitors as new members – instead ask “what purpose God has for sending these persons here?” In the same presentation I heard Guder say “The apostles never went out to save anyone … they went out to call together a community to witness to God’s Kingdom.” Although I don’t necessarily subscribe to the first part of that statement, Guder puts church turnover into context.

I urge four things in relation to turnover.

1. Be intentional about calling people into the Kingdom. Each visitor, each person becoming part of the church community, needs to be nurtured into life in the Kingdom. The pastors and leaders should take regular time to sit, have coffee, and listen and call people into this life of allowing Jesus to reign in our lives and the life of our church, and to discern the marvelous things He is doing in and around us that we can participate in.  Each time someone gets this, it joins the church body into a more cohesive social unit that God can reign in and over to do His miraculous work of His Kingdom. Get together with any people hanging out with the church and ask nurturing questions: Where is God working in your life? How are you submitting to the King and seeing His work flourish in and among your life?

2. Be cautious about people who leave saying “I didn’t get this particular need met.” When someone tells me this I got to be cautious. I think we need to listen. We need to take note of the issues we’re not dealing with that prompted this person to leave. But pastors can get so caught up in taking care of people’s needs, building programs that appeal to people’s needs (so they won’t leave) that take care of what people think they need or their children need, and in the end we leave little space for God to work in power among us for His Kingdom. We end up just maintaining our Americanized consumer lives. (BTW most of the people leaving our church were not in this category).

When we call people into the Kingdom life, the “so much more” beyond immediate self focused need, some people will leave. But as long as we’ve done the job of humbly pastorally directing people into the life in His reign, then I’ve got to be all right with that.

3. No one should leave out of anger-conflict . I urge pastors not to quickly dismiss the person who isn’t getting it or who balks at the most basic moves of the Kingdom. Like, at our body, we consider the process of reconciling conflict as ground zero of where the Kingdom breaks in. Jesus says “wherever two or more are gathered” and reach agreement “there am I in the midst.” Whatever is bound on earth is bound in heaven, loosed on earth, loosed in heaven.” The Kingdom breaks in, demons are defeated, people are actually healed in the process.
Yet, sadly, most people will resist. We are all trained to think conflict is about defending or winning not about the Kingdom breaking in. Pastors must model subordination to the one who is in question, pastors must lead by humility, ask questions and listen, submit first to what is being aimed at the pastor, assure and stoke imagination for what God wants to do in each of us and into the world through these times of discernment.

4. Use people’s neediness to direct them into the Kingdom. Calling people into the Kingdom means using people’s desires for immediate solutions to their problems to call them into God’s Kingdom. We must help people see that any want or need will never ultimately be fulfilled (only temporarily satiated) by a certain program or approach to church.  For those who seek ready made fellowship, we need to nurture the incredible community that happens when just a few of us gather in submission to Christ to look for His Kingdom work, and pray and enter in (think Acts 2). For those who seek a better job or more job satisfaction, we need to nurture the incredible job satisfaction that comes from seeing one’s job as the arena for God to work in us to transform the world in Christ. For those seeking a better children’s ministry to keep their children/teenagers happy or content, we need to nurture a community that does not entertain children, but trains them, into a way of being in the world where Jesus is Lord  (not them or their immediate desires). Once they experience this incredibly full and peaceful world, any thing else will seem shallow and this will mean a lot in the college years to come.
Sadly of course, there will be those who don’t see things in this way. They might leave an d we should bless them with peace. This is fine. This is God’s work. I’m the gardener, He’s the one who makes things grow.

I think each time we spend time with someone entering or leaving the church body  we are building the Kingdom. I think this should be a regular rhythm of church planters but also every pastor. I think you do this for five, six, ten years… little outposts for the Kingdom are built with explosive potential for God’s power to be revealed. Turnover is to be expected, but it should not be dismissed. It’s the opportunity to be used to build His Kingdom. What other experiences do you have with turnover as the means for God to build His Kingdom?

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P.S. For those looking for the second post on “Being Missional Among the GBLT peoples,” I hope to have it up by Friday. The conversation has been thick on that post and I’ve been swamped …

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“On Being Missional” with the Gay/Lesbian Peoples Among Us

imagesIs it possible to “be Missional” among the gay/lesbian communities without a clear affirmative stance towards GLBT relations? Said another way – Is it possible to participate in “God’s Mission” in today’s world while making a clear statement that would not affirm GBLT sexual relations as normative for the Kingdom of God? Many would flat out say “no.” For many, to be missional/emerging is to not only accept but affirm gay and lesbian sexual relations as normative. Any other position is judgmental, positivistic (even primitivistic) towards Scripture and sets us apart and over against the gay and lesbian communities among whom we seek to minister God’s grace.

Although I may agree with some of this, I find myself still at odds with many of the underlying assumptions that drive these conclusions. I’m asking for a rethinking of this question for Mission.

I have been unhappy with the evangelical proto-type response to the gay/lesbian communities in United States. There has been a “sick enjoyment” present in pointing to the sin of GLBT sexual relations on behalf of evangelicals. It’s a defensive and protective reaction. Many times, subtly, the gay/lesbian is used as an object to justify our sense of moral status which so often proves duplicitous. It is like pointing to the sin of the gay/lesbian sexualities enables us to cover up our own deep complicity with the same sexual malformation in ourselves. I tried to say all of this here in this post over here.

On the other hand, I find the approach of the post-Emergent Coalescence (pEC) unsatisfying. It most often proposes a loving acceptance, an affirmation and further conversation (this is an quick stereotype of the dominant stream).  Although there are positive elements here, after years of engagement, prayer, reflection, this approach remains insufficient for me to the missional task.

This leads me to put forth what I see as a third option to the above two options (as I have admittedly stereotyped them). Over against position 1.) which “welcomes but does not affirm” (common among the Neo Reformed missionals), and position no. 2 which “welcomes and affirms”(an admittedly simplistic summary of many in the pEC) I propose a 3rd position, the position of “welcomes and transforms.” This position is driven by two key theological drivers to the Missional logic: the incarnation and its model of cultural engagement and the Kingdom of God (in ways different from the Niebuhrian “transformational logic” that seems common among the streams of Emergent. In the three posts to follow, in the coming weeks, I would like to address the three themes within this whole series of posts (see here) following this Missional Logic. The three themes are a.)sanctification, b.)the way the community works, and c.) the way we interpret Scripture. I’ll talk about

a.) The Place of Desire in the Kingdom, and the Incarnation’s Affirmation of the Body
b.) The Way Witness Works Through Incarnational Redemptive Community
c.) The Redemptive Hermeutic that Guides a Missional reading of Scripture

I’m going to offer a post for each one of these starting this week. This series of posts concludes a series of posts that began here (and continued here and here and probably should include this post here as necessary background). The three posts to follow all deal with this last and probably most controversial of all the issues regarding GLBT relations.

But first, before I dive into this controversial water, what do you think? Can One Be Missional and Not Be Affirming of GLBT defining peoples? Can you be an Emerging Christian in N America and NOT Be Affirming of GLBT Relationships? Is there something inherent to the Emerging and/or Missional movement which requires affirmation of GLBT as the basis for life among these communities? that requires making no defining statements at all on these issues? Have I disqualified myself from being Missional and/or being “Emerging” by posting on this issue in this way?

Peace …

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Following the lead of “T” in the comments, I am now changing the name of this position from “Welcomes and Transforms” to “Welcomes and Mutually Transforms.” This gets at what I’m after in way Community works redemptively in all transformation. It also gets at the difference between the kind of “transformed” implied by Niebuhr versus Yoder …More to come on this in the posts to follow … Thanks “T” …

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Dude – we’ll miss you: Michael Spencer 1956-2010

safe_imageThis hurts … losing a blogger friend like Internet Monk aka Michael Spencer. I read him often. He mikedid several things well. He criticized evangelicalism in a way that was graceful. I tried to learn how to do this by reading him (it ain’t totally happened yet). He was fair and balanced in his engagement with the Neo-Reformed ever being careful not to throw the Reformation under the bus and out with the bathwater. He did theology out of a care for on the ground ministry. These kind of theologians are hard to find. I did not know Michael face to face  ………….  but boy will I miss him.

Our prayers with Denise and the children. May they know the profound reality of Easter out of Romans ch. 8 – that “nothing can separate us from the love of God” in Christ Jesus.

Read his blog.

Buy his book.

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“Nothing Can Separate Us From the Love of God”

6a00e54ed0df528833011571516239970c-800wiThanks to all at Life on the Vine for a wonderful day basking in His love, the love that was victorious in the resuurection. Blessings on all the baptismands, we walk with you. I shall not forget this day!

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On Making Justice Local and the Upcoming Evolving Church Conference

4113345421_3b31384e8cWe have a tendency in American church to make a program out of the practice of justice. “Justice” then becomes a concept, something we do for a couple hours a week, where we get in our cars and go to some location of urban blight, and serve God. In the process, by definition we become distanced from God’s justice in the world. It becomes “a cause,” a bumper sticker, an abstract concept. It becomes something we fight for like “the Christian Nation” that enables us to put all our energy into working for change meanwhile avoiding where real change might take place, on the ground, in our lives, immediately around and among us. In our very midst, as we sit together worshipping God together, there are poor among us, there are excesses, there are inequities that reveal the lack of a real reconciliation of Christ among us on Sunday morning. And so on and on we go, with real justice (not just the idea) never taking root.

I contend that God’s righteousness is intensely relational. Separating monetary economics from all other sorts of relationships is not possible in the Kingdom. This means we cannot promote justice as some sort of program alone. Money won’t solve the injustice problem alone (although it’s inseparable from it). It’s a whole new order that begins in people’s lives with and among each other. In Christ God is reconciling the whole world to Himself – a new order has begun (2 Cor 5:17-21).

So, can we promote justice in the world when it has not yet taken root in our own social bodies? Can we minister to those who are hungry in the world if there are those hungry among us right here in the body of Christ (1 Cor 11:21). I suggest this is the 6000 pound gorilla in the room of many evangelical churches, especially mega churches where we prize our anonymity from each other and don’t know who’s struggling from who’s not. We need to know what justice looks like here in order to know what it might look like elsewhere. The justice of Christ must take shape as a way of being His body, a form of sharing and caring for each other that results in another form of economics that breaks down the isolation and well-defended personal financial security that capitalism requires of us all in N. America. When we set this process in motion through obedience and faithfulness, we “become the justice of God.” (2 Cor 5:21). We can actually “see” what true justice might look like. We are gifted with the ability to subvert and transform the social injustices of our day. We offer the world a new way of being together. We become salt and light in the world for God’s justice. We have the ability to not only accuse the world of injustice, but to participate where God is already at work for the justice of the world because we can see it, recognize and even complete it by joining in with God for the “making of all things right.”

All of this means that we need to take seriously the issue of Kingdom economics. How can the church show the world the way forward in the shaping of our socio-economic relationships among us as God’s people? What does this mean? This is so ‘stinkin’ complicated I almost feel the urge to warn any one who takes this one on – Go slow, think through this, study and preach Scripture, allow the Holy Spirit to shape our imaginations, discern each little thing as it arises for the faithfulness God is calling us to. Assign a person the role of cultivating and shaping imagination for what God is doing in each situation of hurt, lack or victimization in your church (this is what we’re in the midst of doing at our church). Does this mean living socially under one common purse? Many people would say so based on texts like Acts 2:44. I don’t necessarily think so. At least not in many current contexts (although for some contexts this might be the only option). Does this mean we start moving into together so as to live “more simply?” maybe, maybe not depending on a lot of factors. Does this mean we grow gardens, share food. Does this mean we all have unlimited financial liability towards one another? Does this mean we start co-op non-for-profit banks or healthcare services? More and more, I am convinced we need to think seriously about these things, not just in poor urban areas but in richer suburban areas as well.

We all to need to pray and think about this stuff as we seek to cooperate with God’s righteousness to the world. Ironically there’s a conference up north talking about local justice. I say ironic because most conferences I’ve seen promoted deal with justice on a mass scale as opposed to the nature of local justice, local economy. This next coming weekend, April 10, the guys at the Evolving Church Conference in Toronto are bringing together wonderful minds to think through what local Kingdom economics might look like (the painting you see in this post is from the conference). The title of this one day learning time is “Kingdom Economy” and Brennan Manning, William Cavanaugh, David Dark, Becky Garrison and others are gathering to speak and converse on the very issues of this post. I’m especially interested in hearing J Kameron Carter – I’m a big fan of his book – Race A Theological Account. YOU CAN GET ALL THE INFO RIGHT HERE.  If you’re near by, if you can make the trek there, by all means go! I’ll see you there in Toronto …
Blessings on the conference!

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